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Managing Stress at Work for Medical Staff

I think the first of the year is prime time for work frustration and dissatisfaction. People are trying to get used to the idea of going back to work after the holidays, or still resenting the fact that they didn’t get time off over the holidays. There are stresses built into systems and organizations where we work, and  there are individual vulnerabilities inside each of us. Improvements in either of these areas can make a huge difference in how we experience work.

The performance of medical staff, for example, seems to improve as the staff are able to address a few basic emotional questions. I want to discuss those questions here. Maybe I can focus on other occupations in future posts.

I want to point out that when I call them “basic” questions, I mean that they are important, universal, and foundational, not necessarily easy or trivial.

What right do I have to be here?

The “impostor syndrome” is that feeling  that if other people only knew my faults like I did, I would be “found out” and have to leave. What do I do about the fact that I have faults and short-comings, even bad habits? When taken together as a whole picture, warts and all, am I still acceptable, even valuable here? Or am I  just lucky no one has noticed yet? If I have settled this question, I can be properly assertive and focus on the task at hand instead of being anxious.

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Life by the Slice

Biting off more than you can chew can be messy and embarrassing and certainly takes some of the joy out of eating. There is one built-in limit that partially protects us from taking a bite too big:  we can only open our mouths so wide. I wouldn’t advise letting that be your only guide, but for the sake of children everywhere I’m glad we at least have that. And, since almost all of us have learned the lesson early in life we should feel free to apply it wherever it may be helpful… figuratively, I mean.

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Everyone talks about the weather but no one does anything about it.

- my paraphrase of Mark Twain’s wisdom.

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Climate-zone.com tells me that Grand Rapids has on average 205 cloudy days a year.  (They count partially cloudy days separately. So cloudy really means CLOUDY.)  Recently moving from northern California where the average number of clear days is about 3 times what it is here, I’m pretty sure my body notices that something has changed. Today I hear on the radio that Sunday we could have 6 inches of snow. It’s April 2nd. Enough already!

Our environment plays a crucial role in how we feel and act. The effect feels just plain “physical.” At these times, it’s very difficult to identify thoughts or beliefs that are “causing” what my body feels.  Luckily changing how my body feels is not the only option. This is what I do (when I remember) and it may be helpful to you.

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